It’s one of the basic needs on the lowest part of the hierarchy of needs. It causes that feeling of frustration when your wife doesn’t give you any. It also is the feeling that you really just gotta need some alone time to pleasure yourself. It’s also is the reason why my better half has no more to wear since I’ve torn all of his clothes away.
Ok, I admit I lied about that last part. That never happened. Ok, that really happened. But, you catch my drift. I also admit that I am probably the least competent person to discuss this but give me a shot, will ya? This is rocket science to me. If you think I look like 15, you’re probably right. I really think a fifteen year old knows more about this department than I do.
That’s right. I’m talkin’ ’bout fuckin’. I uhhh… I mean, sex. That’s our ‘S-word’ for today.
Fornication, copulation, procreation, it goes by so many names, terms, and idioms. George Michael said,
‘Sex is something that we should do
Sex is something for me and you.
Sex is natural, sex is good.
Not everybody does it, but everybody should.’
Sex is what stirs the primal desires of man. Over the course of human history, sex has played a pivotal part in our very existence because if Ma and Pa didn’t get horny one night and Pa decided to shoot his load inside of Ma, regardless if it was intentional or otherwise, you or I wouldn’t be here. There’d be no Einstein, there’d be no Donald Trump, there’d be no Ice Cube if it wasn’t for their parents. According to science, bearing our offspring is the purpose why we are alive. If you have a child, you have pretty much fulfilled your purpose as a human being. Sex sounds like a pretty neat thing.
Sex is totally different from many cultures too. Like mine, for example. I, as well as many girls in the Philippines and the rest of Asia, have kept chaste until their date of marriage although our numbers are decreasing because of the increasing Westernization in Asia. It’s a tradition here to observe that a woman remains a virgin until she is married because the Holy Bible, as well as other sacred texts, said so. My great grandmother kept to that vow, so did my grandmother, so did my mother until it was passed to Kay who decided to keep the tradition going. I can’t speak for Western women but I can observe that women from Western nations freely speak about sex and sexuality openly than women in Asia. I don’t know squat about other continents so I guess I’d be lying if I presumed anything on their end. Think of it like this, if I told Nextie that I masturbate at least three times a day, she will most likely laugh her head off and say ‘Kay is a horny pervert!!!’ jokingly but if I told that to my bestfriend, she’s going to be like, ‘Kay, you need to find Jesus on your life.’ or ‘Kay, have some shame will you?’
Sex happens to be a healthy thing people do although there are times where it crosses with the lines of the law, especially with people who have certain paraphilias. Most of you probably have heard some of it: pedophilia, voyeurism, frotteurism, exhibitionism, sadism, masochism, zoophilia, are some of most familiar terms I can think of when it comes to abnormal sexual interest and it shouldn’t be surprising to many of you that people in the field of mental health consider these mental disorders especially when taken to the extreme when it interferes with the law. Rape is the most common sexual crime known to many and both sexes have fallen prey to the shameful and often life-changing act.
Sex education is serving is purpose although to be honest, I knew more doing the nasty than what I read and have been taught in school. I wasn’t taught that guys get hard, I wasn’t taught about what comes our during ejaculation and most of all, I wasn’t told about what an orgasm is. Actually. nobody told me about it. You guys would actually be surprised how many guys don’t know what a clitoris is and how many girls don’t know that fondling a guy’s balls can actually feel good. Well, maybe not in the US but I guess that’s my reality here. Also…I didn’t know balls were supposed to be soft until I was 19 years old.
Taboo, as conservative and traditional people may think so and it’s a subject best discussed behind closed doors. But this place, my friends, is built with the foundation of free speech and where else can we talk about things taboo other than our place here?
Discuss away, gorriors. Let’s hear about this certain ‘S’ word.